20: Adoption
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\(\newcommand{\avec}{\mathbf a}\) \(\newcommand{\bvec}{\mathbf b}\) \(\newcommand{\cvec}{\mathbf c}\) \(\newcommand{\dvec}{\mathbf d}\) \(\newcommand{\dtil}{\widetilde{\mathbf d}}\) \(\newcommand{\evec}{\mathbf e}\) \(\newcommand{\fvec}{\mathbf f}\) \(\newcommand{\nvec}{\mathbf n}\) \(\newcommand{\pvec}{\mathbf p}\) \(\newcommand{\qvec}{\mathbf q}\) \(\newcommand{\svec}{\mathbf s}\) \(\newcommand{\tvec}{\mathbf t}\) \(\newcommand{\uvec}{\mathbf u}\) \(\newcommand{\vvec}{\mathbf v}\) \(\newcommand{\wvec}{\mathbf w}\) \(\newcommand{\xvec}{\mathbf x}\) \(\newcommand{\yvec}{\mathbf y}\) \(\newcommand{\zvec}{\mathbf z}\) \(\newcommand{\rvec}{\mathbf r}\) \(\newcommand{\mvec}{\mathbf m}\) \(\newcommand{\zerovec}{\mathbf 0}\) \(\newcommand{\onevec}{\mathbf 1}\) \(\newcommand{\real}{\mathbb R}\) \(\newcommand{\twovec}[2]{\left[\begin{array}{r}#1 \\ #2 \end{array}\right]}\) \(\newcommand{\ctwovec}[2]{\left[\begin{array}{c}#1 \\ #2 \end{array}\right]}\) \(\newcommand{\threevec}[3]{\left[\begin{array}{r}#1 \\ #2 \\ #3 \end{array}\right]}\) \(\newcommand{\cthreevec}[3]{\left[\begin{array}{c}#1 \\ #2 \\ #3 \end{array}\right]}\) \(\newcommand{\fourvec}[4]{\left[\begin{array}{r}#1 \\ #2 \\ #3 \\ #4 \end{array}\right]}\) \(\newcommand{\cfourvec}[4]{\left[\begin{array}{c}#1 \\ #2 \\ #3 \\ #4 \end{array}\right]}\) \(\newcommand{\fivevec}[5]{\left[\begin{array}{r}#1 \\ #2 \\ #3 \\ #4 \\ #5 \\ \end{array}\right]}\) \(\newcommand{\cfivevec}[5]{\left[\begin{array}{c}#1 \\ #2 \\ #3 \\ #4 \\ #5 \\ \end{array}\right]}\) \(\newcommand{\mattwo}[4]{\left[\begin{array}{rr}#1 \amp #2 \\ #3 \amp #4 \\ \end{array}\right]}\) \(\newcommand{\laspan}[1]{\text{Span}\{#1\}}\) \(\newcommand{\bcal}{\cal B}\) \(\newcommand{\ccal}{\cal C}\) \(\newcommand{\scal}{\cal S}\) \(\newcommand{\wcal}{\cal W}\) \(\newcommand{\ecal}{\cal E}\) \(\newcommand{\coords}[2]{\left\{#1\right\}_{#2}}\) \(\newcommand{\gray}[1]{\color{gray}{#1}}\) \(\newcommand{\lgray}[1]{\color{lightgray}{#1}}\) \(\newcommand{\rank}{\operatorname{rank}}\) \(\newcommand{\row}{\text{Row}}\) \(\newcommand{\col}{\text{Col}}\) \(\renewcommand{\row}{\text{Row}}\) \(\newcommand{\nul}{\text{Nul}}\) \(\newcommand{\var}{\text{Var}}\) \(\newcommand{\corr}{\text{corr}}\) \(\newcommand{\len}[1]{\left|#1\right|}\) \(\newcommand{\bbar}{\overline{\bvec}}\) \(\newcommand{\bhat}{\widehat{\bvec}}\) \(\newcommand{\bperp}{\bvec^\perp}\) \(\newcommand{\xhat}{\widehat{\xvec}}\) \(\newcommand{\vhat}{\widehat{\vvec}}\) \(\newcommand{\uhat}{\widehat{\uvec}}\) \(\newcommand{\what}{\widehat{\wvec}}\) \(\newcommand{\Sighat}{\widehat{\Sigma}}\) \(\newcommand{\lt}{<}\) \(\newcommand{\gt}{>}\) \(\newcommand{\amp}{&}\) \(\definecolor{fillinmathshade}{gray}{0.9}\)Around 5 million people in the United States are adopted; approximately 115,353 adoptions took place in 2019, including private placements, stepparent adoptions, and adoptions from foster care, with another roughly 114,000 children currently in foster care awaiting adoption. (Adoption.com).
Adoption: The legal process by which one person (the adoptive parent) becomes the legal parent of another person (the adoptee).
With adoption, the parent-child relationship is a permanent relationship (as opposed to foster care, which is a temporary parent-child relationship). State and Federal law treats adoptive parents and children the same as biological parents and children, conferring the same rights, obligations, and legal status on parents and children (See Chapter 17). There are several different types of adoption, and the process varies by state and by country.
Types of Adoptions
Typically, minor children are adopted; however, many states also allow for the adoption of adults. Most often, the purpose of adult adoption is to provide for inheritance or other rights for the adult adoptee.
Domestic Adoption: All parties (including the child) reside within the United States
There are many different types of domestic adoption:
- Private agency infant adoption: the birth parent(s) make an adoption plan for their child through a licensed adoption agency. The agency maintains legal custody of the baby and the baby is physically placed with the identified adoptive parent(s) with an approved adoption home study.
- Closed agency adoption: Records are sealed and the identity of the biological and adoptive parents are kept confidential except in relatively rare circumstances.
- Open agency adoption: The biological parent maintains certain kinds of initial and/or ongoing contact with the adoptee, whose adoptive parent(s) were often selected by the biological parent.
- Independent infant adoption: the birth parent(s) selects the adoptive parents through a source other than an adoption agency. A licensed adoption agency must still be involved in the independent adoption process to complete the adoption home study, license the home, monitor placement, and provide/offer counseling and services to birth parents and prospective adoptive parents.
- Public agency adoption: the adoptive parent(s) adopt a child who is currently in the foster care system and is unable to be reunited with their birth parent(s). Essentially, the temporary parent-child relationship created in the foster care system becomes a permanent parent-child relationship.
- Relative adoption: the birth parent and the adoptive parent(s) are related by blood or marriage. Relatives who may adopt include parents, grandparents, or other persons related to one of the birth parents. Typically, relative adoptions are independent adoptions.
- Step-parent adoption: the spouse of the child’s biological parent adopts the child. Most commonly, stepparent adoption occurs when the child’s other biological parent is deceased. Stepparent adoption can also occur if the other biological parent’s rights have been involuntarily or voluntarily terminated, though this circumstance is less common. Similar to relative adoptions, stepparent adoptions are independent adoptions.
- Second-parent adoption: a non-marital partner of the child’s biological parent adopts the child. The only difference between step-parent and second-parent adoption is that the two adoptive parents are not married to one another. Not all states allow second-parent adoptions; however, many states allow a single unmarried person to adopt unilaterally.
- Tribal adoption: the child is eligible to register with a Native American Tribe. This type of adoption is subject to special rules and procedures under the Indian Child Welfare Act. Essentially, adoptive preference is given to the child’s extended family, other members of the child’s tribe, or other tribal families.
International/Intercountry Adoption: Person(s) from the United States adopt a child who resides outside of the United States.
Each country has its own rules and procedures that must be followed before the child can be adopted. In the United States, the Department of State is the designated Central Authority for the Hague Convention, and the Office of Children's Issues in the department's Bureau of Consular Affairs is responsible for executing the day-to-day functions under the Convention. U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS), an agency within the U.S. Department of Homeland Security, also plays a significant role. In many states, a licensed adoption agency in the state must also complete an adoption home study.
According to the U.S. Department of State, there have been 284,088 international adoptions from 1999 to 2023; in 2023, 1,275 children were adopted into the US, and 24 children were adopted from the United States into Austria, Canada, Ireland, the Netherlands, Norway and Switzerland. (FY 2023 Annual Report on Intercountry Adoption)
Requirements and Restrictions on Adoptions
Adoptive Parents
As with legal custody and physical placement in the context of divorce/annulment and paternity, the overriding factor in adoption is the best interest of the child. However, the factors that are considered when determining what is in the child’s best interest in the context of adoption differ in significant ways. With respect to the adoptive parents, courts may consider:
- Age: most states require adoptive parents to be adults, and frown upon large age gaps between adoptive parents and adoptee children. In Wisconsin, because adoptive parents must first be qualified as foster parents, adoptive parents must be at least 21 years old.
- Health: in most states, while general health is an important factor, a disability that does not interfere with raising a child will not render an adoptive parent unfit. Wisconsin statutes specifically provide that a person’s deafness, blindness, or other physical disability. Adoptive parents’ mental and emotional health are also important factors.
- Marital status: some states prefer adoptive parents to be married. Wisconsin allows married or single persons to adopt. Married persons must jointly adopt, unless the adoption is a stepparent adoption.
- Economic status: Adoptive parents must demonstrate financial stability and means to meet the needs of the adoptive child
- Home environment: A home study by a licensed agency will be required to ensure, as much as possible, that the child will be entering a stable, loving home where the child will be nurtured to their best potential. The home should be free from criminal or other illegal activities, as well as what some states describe as “conspicuously unorthodox or immoral lifestyles.” Although outright bans on adoptions by gay or lesbian persons are no longer enforceable, agencies and judges sometimes use their discretion with respect to what is in the child’s best interest to disfavor gay and lesbian adoptive parents.
- Race: Although race can be a factor, especially with Native American children, pursuant to the federal Multiethnic Placement Act, as well as state statutes, no otherwise qualified person can be declared unfit because of his or her race, color, ancestry or national origin.
- Religion: in most states, including Wisconsin, the birth parent(s) can request that the adoptive parents be the same religion as the birth parent(s), if practicable. In Wisconsin, adoption cannot be denied based on their religious belief in the use of spiritual means through prayer for healing.
Adoptees
As mentioned previously, in most states, including Wisconsin, adults can be adopted by other adults.
With respect to minor children, Wisconsin statutes declare children living in Wisconsin to be eligible for adoption if:
- Both of the child’s parents are deceased.
- The parental rights of both of the child’s parents with respect to the child have been terminated.
- The parental rights of one of the child’s parents with respect to the child have been terminated and the child’s other parent is deceased.
- The person filing the petition for adoption is the spouse of the child’s parent with whom the child and the child’s parent reside and either of the following applies:
- The child’s other parent is deceased.
- The parental rights of the child’s other parent with respect to the child have been terminated.
Advertising
People wanting to initiate a private, independent adoption, and who don’t have prospective adoptive parents or children in their families may resort to advertising. Many states do not allow any advertising for adoptions, whereas other states allow advertising only by certain persons. Advertising for adoption is highly regulated so that the parties’ conduct does not raise concerns about “baby selling.”
In Wisconsin, only licensed agencies and individuals who have been recommended by a licensed agency as fit adoptive parents may advertise for the purpose of finding a child to adopt. Birth parents are not allowed to advertise their intent to place their child for adoption. Section 48.825, Wis. Stats. Advertising includes traditional methods such as billboards and radio/television communications, as well as posts on social media or other uses of the internet. Violations of Wisconsin’s rules regarding adoption advertisements can result in fines and imprisonment.
Other potential resources for finding children available to adopt or adoptive parents include friends, relatives, and coworkers; online directories and support groups; churches and other places of worship; or even doctors and attorneys.
Payments
Similar to advertising, nearly every state restricts payments between adoptive parents and the birth parent(s). The types of expenses for which payment/reimbursement to the biological mother is most commonly allowed by states include:
- Maternity-related medical and hospital costs
- Temporary living expenses of the mother during pregnancy
- Counseling fees
- Attorney and legal fees, including guardian ad litem fees
- Travel costs, meals, and lodging when necessary for court appearances or accessing services
- Foster care for the child, when necessary
In Wisconsin, proposed adoptive parents may pay the actual cost of any of the following:
- Pre-adoptive and post-adoptive counseling for a birth parent of the child or an alleged or presumed father of the child.
- Maternity clothes for the child's birth mother, in an amount not to exceed $300.
- Local transportation expenses of a birth parent of the child that are related to the pregnancy or adoption.
- Services provided by a licensed child welfare agency in connection with the adoption.
- Medical and hospital care received by the child's birth mother in connection with the pregnancy or birth of the child. Medical and hospital care does not include lost wages or living expenses.
- Medical and hospital care received by the child.
- Legal and other services received by a birth parent of the child, an alleged or presumed father of the child, or the child in connection with the adoption.
- Living expenses of the child's birth mother, in an amount not to exceed $5,000 if payment of the expenses by the proposed adoptive parents or a person acting on their behalf is necessary to protect the health and welfare of the birth mother or the fetus.
- Any court-ordered investigation is based on a fee schedule established by the state.
- If the adoption is completed, the cost of any care provided for the child by foster parents other than the adoptive parents
- Birthing classes.
- A gift to the child's birth mother from the proposed adoptive parents, of no greater than $100 in value.
Payments can be made directly to the birth parent(s) or to the provider of goods or services listed above. All other payments are prohibited. Section 48.913, Wis. Stats.
Adoption Procedure in General
Adopting a child is neither easy nor inexpensive. States have created elaborate and complex procedures designed to protect the best interests of children, the rights of biological parents, and the interests of adoptive parents.
In general, the process consists of two steps, although both steps may be accomplished in a single proceeding. In the first step, the legal rights and obligations of the natural parents are terminated, either voluntarily or involuntarily. The second step is the formal adoption which creates the legal bond with the new adoptive parents, giving the new adoptive parents the legal rights and obligations that formerly existed between the child and the birth parents. Though the procedures and safeguards vary by state and by type of adoption, the following steps are typically required:
- Termination of the parental rights of the birth parent(s). Termination can be voluntary or involuntary (the birth parent is found by a court to be unfit). Notice to the birth father or putative/alleged birth father is critical. Many states require a search of the putative father registry if the birth father has not been identified.
- Petition by the adoptive parent(s). Adoptions require court action to fully and finally create the new parent-child relationship, even if the adoptive parent is a spouse or relative of the birth parent.
- Certification and Training for adoptive parents. Depending on the type of adoption, adoptive parents might be required to be certified as foster parents prior to being given an adoptive placement. Many states, including Wisconsin, require first-time adoptive parents to complete pre-adoption training that covers
- Adoption and its impact on parenting and family dynamics
- The issues for a child in an adoptive placement
- Loss and grief for the adopted child and the adoptive family
- Attachment issues in adoptive placements
- Support and resources for adopted children and adoptive families, Cultural sensitivity in adoption
- Effects of abuse and neglect in adoption, including sexual abuse,e Legal issues relating to adoption
- Issues of children being adopted from an institutionalized care setting
- Educational issues in adoption
- Childhood developmental stages
- Trauma issues related to adoption
- Home study. Licensed agencies perform extensive investigations into the adoptive family to ensure the child will be provided with a stable, safe, and healthy home. Home studies generally include interviews and investigations regarding
- Personal and family background about the adoptive parent’s family growing up, including discipline, conflict resolution, and other life experiences
- Other significant people, such as spouses/life partners, co-workers, friends, and extended family
- Motivation to adopt, including feelings about infertility if this was an issue
- Parenting and integration of the child into the family, including expectations for the child(ren) growing up
- Family dynamics and environment including conditions of the home; interactions with siblings and others in the home; evidence of drug/alcohol abuse; evidence of spousal/domestic or child abuse/neglect
- Physical, medical, and health history
- Education, employment, job stresses, insurance coverage, and childcare plans
- Reference letters of recommendation from three non-relatives. Some agencies also ask for recommendations from family members, school staff, etc.
- Criminal background checks, including child protective services checks
- Recommendations/consent of any required parties. This may include guardians ad litem for the adoptee child, for the minor birth parent(s), the state or other person currently having custody over the adoptee child, and the agency.
- Finalization of the adoption. In addition to granting the adoption, the court may order changes to the adoptee child’s name or birth certificate.
Needless to say, the assistance of trained legal professionals is recommended at every step of the process.
Challenges to the Adoption Order
Although the grounds for challenging an adoption order and the time allowed for doing so are limited, legal battles sometimes occur. Most relate to a lack of proper notice or violation of procedures.
Some of the most infamous cases involving challenges to adoption orders involved claims that the birth father did not receive proper and adequate notice before his parental rights were terminated. These cases resulted in intense public reaction and what one judge referred to as “journalistic terrorism.”
Synopsis
This case involved an interstate battle between Baby Jessica’s birth parents, Cara and Daniel Schmidt (who lived in Iowa), and her custodial parents, Roberta and Jan DeBoer (who lived in Michigan). Shortly after giving birth in Iowa, Cara relinquished her parental rights; Cara had named Scott Seefeldt as the baby’s father and he also relinquished his parental rights. Two weeks later, the DeBoers filed a petition in Iowa to adopt the child. That same day, Cara and Scott’s parental rights were terminated and the DeBoers were granted custody; the DeBoers then returned to Michigan. Nine days after the adoption petition was filed and approximately one month after the baby was born, Cara initiated a court action to revoke her relinquishment of her parental rights, disclosing that she had lied when she named Scott as the father and instead claiming Daniel Schmidt was the father. Daniel intervened in the action and nearly 9 months later it was determined that Daniel was indeed the biological father and that his parental rights had not been properly terminated. As a result, the DeBoers’ adoption petition was denied.
A series of court actions in Iowa and Michigan occurred over the next two years; during this time the baby remained with the DeBoers. More than 2 years after the baby was born, the DeBoers were ordered to transfer the custody of the baby to her birth parents in Iowa.
Excerpts
Following are excerpts from the dissenting opinion which demonstrate the difficulty the courts face in balancing parental rights and the best interest of the child in these types of cases (citations and references to other authorities within the opinion are omitted)
I would agree with the majority's analysis if the DeBoers had gone to Iowa, purchased a carload of hay from Cara Clausen, and then found themselves in litigation in Iowa with Daniel Schmidt, who also claimed an interest in the hay. It could then properly be said that the DeBoers "must be taken to have known" that, rightly or wrongly, the Iowa courts might rule against them, and they should, as gracefully as possible, accept an adverse decision of the Iowa courts. Michigan would then have had no interest in the outcome, and would routinely enforce a decree of the Iowa courts against the DeBoers.
But this is not a lawsuit concerning the ownership, the legal title, to a bale of hay. This is not the usual A v B lawsuit; Schmidts v DeBoers, or, if you prefer, DeBoers v Schmidts.
There is a C, the child, "a feeling, vulnerable, and [about to be] sorely put upon little human being": Baby Girl Clausen, also known as Jessica DeBoer, who will now be told, … that she is not Jessie, that the DeBoers are not Mommy and Daddy, that her name is Anna Lee Schmidt, and that the Schmidts, whom she has never met, are Mommy and Daddy. This child might, indeed, as the circuit judge essentially concluded, have difficulty trying that on for size at two and one-half years, she might, indeed, suffer an identity crisis. The judge said:
We had different degrees of testimony from the experts. All the way from permanent, serious damage she would never recover from, down to the child, who would recover in time. However, every expert testified that there would be serious traumatic injury to the child at this time.
The majority's analysis, that the DeBoers should have known when they filed their petition for adoption in Iowa that they might lose, overlooks that the child did not choose to litigate in Iowa, over four hundred miles from her only home, the legal and factual issues that would decide whether her world would be destroyed, and know that she might lose.
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The majority's analysis focusing on the contest between the Schmidts and the DeBoers for possession of the child misfocuses on whether biological parents or persons acting as parents have the better "legal right," better legal title, not to a carload of hay, but to a child. The focus of the Parental Kidnapping Protection Act is not on the interests of the contestants' parents or persons acting as parents but, rather, on the best interests of the child.
The superior claim of the child to be heard in this case is grounded not just in law, but in basic human morality. Adults like the Schmidts and the DeBoers make choices in their lives, and society holds them responsible for their choices. When adults are forced to bear the consequences of their choices, however disastrous, at least their character and personality have been fully formed, and that character can provide the foundation for recovery, the will to go on.
The character and personality of a child two and one-half years old is just beginning to take shape. To visit the consequences of adult choices upon the child during the formative years of her life, and to force her to sort out the competing emotional needs of the Schmidts and DeBoers, is unnecessarily harsh and without legal justification. The PKPA does not require this result.
The PKPA was enacted to protect the child. This Court, by ignoring obvious issues concerning the welfare of the child and by focusing exclusively on the concerns of competing adults, as if this were a dispute about the vesting of contingent remainders, reduces the PKPA to a robot of legal formality with results that Congress did not intend.
Essentially, the court in Baby Jessica stated that factors regarding the best interest of the child should have outweighed the parental rights of the birth parents in that case. The following year, another court reached the opposite conclusion.
Synopsis
This case involved an interstate battle over “Baby Richard” that lasted over 3 years. Daniella Janikova became pregnant in June 1990. She was not married to the child’s biological father Otakar Kirchner. During the first 8 months of the pregnancy, Kirchner paid all of Daniella’s expenses. Shortly before the child was born, Kirchner returned to his native country of Czechoslovakia to care for his gravely ill grandmother. During this time, Kirchner’s aunt told Daniella that he had resumed a romantic relationship with another woman. Daniella cut ties with Kirchner and refused contact with him when he returned, other than to falsely tell him the child had died. She instead consented to the DeBoers’ adoption of the baby.
57 days after the child was born, Kirchner discovered that the baby was alive and had been placed for adoption. At that point, Kirchner filed a court action to contest the adoption. The trial court ruled against Kirchner, terminating his parental rights. The Supreme Court reversed the trial court and vacated the adoption order.
A series of court actions in Iowa and Michigan occurred over the next two years; during this time the baby remained with the DeBoers. More than 2 years after the baby was born, the DeBoers were ordered to transfer the custody of the baby to her birth parents in Iowa.
Excerpts
Following are excerpts from the supplemental opinion of the Justice who authored the majority opinion, written in response to the intense public criticism of the case. (citations and references to other authorities within the opinion are omitted)
On Thursday, June 16, 1994, this court reversed a decision by a divided appellate court which had affirmed certain adoption proceedings in the circuit court of Cook County. Our reversal was the result of the failure of the courts below to correctly apply Illinois law in terminating the natural father's parental rights. This cause is now before the court on petitions for rehearing filed by the adoptive parents and the guardian ad litem for the child.
I have been a judge for over 23 years. In that time, I have seldom before worked on a case that involved the spread of so much misinformation, nor one which dealt with as straightforward an application of law to fact.
As was made clear in the majority opinion, a conspiracy was undertaken to deny the natural father any knowledge of his son's existence. It began when the biological mother, 8½ months pregnant, was misinformed that the father, her fiancé, had left her for another woman. She left their shared home and, at the encouragement of a social worker, agreed to give up her child. The social worker called her personal attorney, who contacted the adoptive mother (that attorney's friend and employee). At the behest of the adoptive parents and their attorney, the mother gave birth at a different hospital than she and the father had planned to avoid the father's intervention; the mother surrendered the baby to strangers four days after his birth; and then falsely told the father that the child had died. All of this occurred in the space of less than three weeks.
The father did not believe the mother, and he immediately began an intensive and persistent search and inquiry to learn the truth and locate the child. On the 57th day following the child's birth, the father learned of his son's existence and of the pending adoption. On that day, he hired a lawyer and contested the adoption of his son by strangers. One may reasonably ask, What more could he have done? What more should he have done? The answer is that he did all that he could and should do.
The majority opinion pointed out that the adoptive parents should have relinquished the baby at that time. That is to say, on the 57th day. Instead of that, however, they were able to procure an entirely erroneous ruling from a trial judge that allowed the adoption to go forward. The father's only remedy at that stage was a legal appeal which he took. He is not the cause of the delay in this case. It was the adoptive parents' decision to prolong this litigation through a long and ultimately fruitless appeal. Now, the view has been expressed that the passage of time warrants their retention of the child; that it would not be fair to the child to return him to his natural parents, now married to each other, after the adoptive parents have delayed justice past the child's third birthday.
If … the best interests of the child is to be the determining factor in child custody cases, persons seeking babies to adopt might profitably frequent grocery stores and snatch babies from carts when the parent is looking the other way. Then, if custody proceedings can be delayed long enough, they can assert that they have a nicer home, a superior education, a better job or whatever, and that the best interests of the child are with the baby snatchers. Children of parents living in public housing or other conditions deemed less than affluent and children with single parents might be considered particularly fair game. The law, thankfully, is otherwise.
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The best interest of the child standard is not to be denigrated. It is real. However, it is not triggered until it has been validly determined that the child is available for adoption. And, a child is not available for adoption until the rights of his natural parents have been properly terminated. ….
Columnist Bob Greene apparently does not care. Rather, columnist Greene has used this unfortunate controversy to stimulate readership and generate a series of syndicated newspaper columns in the Chicago Tribune and other papers that are both false and misleading. In so doing, he has wrongfully cried "fire" in a crowded theatre, and has needlessly alarmed other adoptive parents into ill-founded concerns that their own adoption proceedings may be in jeopardy. In support of his position, Greene has stirred up contempt against the Supreme Court as an institution, concluding one of his columns by referring to all of the Justices with the curse,
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In support of his objective, Greene brings to bear the tools of the demagogue, namely, incomplete information, falsity, half-truths, character assassination and spurious argumentation. He has conducted a steady assault on my abilities as a judge, headlining one of his columns "The Sloppiness of Justice Heiple." Another was entitled "Supreme Injustice for a Little Boy." He has shown my picture in his columns with bylines reading, respectively, "Justice Heiple: Ruling takes boy from home," and "James D. Heiple: No justice for a child."
Make no mistake about it. These are acts of journalistic terrorism. These columns are designed to discredit me as a judge and the Supreme Court as a dispenser of justice by stirring up disrespect and hatred among the general population.
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As for the child, age three, it is to be expected that there would be an initial shock, even a longing for a time in the absence of the persons whom he had viewed as parents. This trauma will be overcome, however, as it is every day across this land by children who suddenly find their parents separated by divorce or lost to them through death. It will not be an insurmountable trauma for a three-year-old child to be returned, at last, to his natural parents who want to raise him as their own. It will work itself out in the fullness of time. As for the adoptive parents, they will have to live with their pain and the knowledge that they wrongfully deprived a father of his child past the child's third birthday. They and their lawyer brought it on themselves.
This much is clear. Adoptive parents who comply with the law may feel secure in their adoptions. Natural parents may feel secure in their right to raise their own children. If there is a tragedy in this case, as has been suggested, then that tragedy is the wrongful breakup of a natural family and the keeping of a child by strangers without rights. We must remember that the purpose of an adoption is to provide a home for a child, not a child for a home.
- What factor do you think should prevail: the best interests of the child or the birth parent’s parental rights? Should that answer depend on the relative “clean” or “dirty” hands of the birth mother, the birth father, and/or the adoptive parent(s)?
- Both cases involved a birth mother who lied to (or about) the baby’s biological father, presumably unbeknownst by the adoptive parents. Should there be a limit on the period of time potential birth fathers have to assert their rights under these circumstances?
Although adoption is complex and expensive, many resources exist to facilitate the process and provide information and support to all persons involved. Adoption is one of the actions affecting the family that results in a happy ending, especially for the child and the adoptive family. This practice specialty can be one of the most rewarding in the area of Family Law.

